The weather was warm and sunny yesterday – perfect for working Gizmo outdoors. We began with a few on-property warm-up exercises with him, and then, we took him off-property for a walk so that I can learn his reactivity triggers and start helping him recover and go forward. The walk turned out to be a non-event, as he was weaving all over the place and unable to focus on his handler. But it was a great session just the same, because he was triggered into highly reactive behavior by dogs barking behind a fence a few houses down the street.
The dogs were barking like crazy. A human was standing outside the closed gate, watching us. Gizmo’s owner was becoming a bit panicked, so I took the leash from her and asked her to stand back and let me work with the dog. Gizmo was already in a reactive state. He was growling and starting to foam at the mouth, and he pulled hard on the leash to get to them. To help break his fixation on the house and get his attention onto me, I brought food treats into the situation. Gizmo is highly motivated by food; when other redirection methods aren’t working, food does. Once I had his attention, I was able to help him take control of himself so he could pass by the trigger house in a calmer state.
As we neared the end of the hour-long session, Gizmo was finally starting to show some self control. He was even able to go into a sit position and focus on me even though we were very close to what I am calling the “trigger house”. He was shaking and panting hard with the effort, but he did it. We practiced this a few times, and then I brought him back towards his owner to see how she was doing. She was still feeling a bit anxious, but she was ready to try taking over the leash. I stayed with her while she took Gizmo past the house and worked to redirect his attention. We did this a couple of times to help build her confidence, and then I stood back and let her go on her own with him. She did a fantastic job of keeping Gizmo focused on her, correcting at the right moments, redirecting when she needed to, and rewarding at the right time.
By the end of the session, Gizmo was exhausted but very happy, and his owner was feeling much more confident with him. She did an awesome job of monitoring her own energy and stopping to take a few deep breaths when she started to feel anxious.
Gizmo has a long way to go on his road to recovery. But he’s already making progress – and this is only our second session. What I’ve observed through watching him and his owner is that one of the reasons he’s so reactive is because his owner is insecure and anxious. When she relaxes, Gizmo relaxes and doesn’t pull on the leash so much. The second she gets tense, Gizmo starts to pull on the leash, weave back and forth, and become reactive if even a bird lands on the ground – which, by the way, did happen.
Gizmo and his owner have a long, hard road ahead of them. They have to learn how to trust each other. Gizmo needs to learn how to relax, and his owner needs to learn how to become calm, confident, and assertive. But they’re both making progress, and that is fantastic. I’m very proud of both of them.
Have a great day, everyone, and remember to stay calm and lead on.
Seven months ago, you came into our home scared, mistrustful, unpredictable, and dangerously food aggressive. You wolfed your food at what seemed like close to light-speed, and you had such severe kennel anxiety that even a few minutes of being in it made you potty in it. Walking you was often very difficult; you were in a new environment and you were so anxious and nervous that you couldn’t relax. Playing with you – especially with a toy – was out of the question; you didn’t know what play was. To you, it was all about doing whatever you had to do to get the prize – including biting.
But, in the seven months that you have been with us, you have changed… and so have I. I’ve helped you learn that not all humans are bad, and you have helped me remember to trust my instincts. I’ve taught you how to play, and in return, you’ve taught me how to enjoy life. I’ve taught you how to give and accept affection, and you’ve taught me that affection feels good. I’ve worked to help you become calm around food, and you’ve helped me become more patient. I’ve worked to help you learn to restrain yourself around the cat, and you’ve helped me learn to be calm. I’ve worked to help you become more trusting, and you have helped me learn how to face and deal with my fears. Between the two of us, my beautiful boy, we’ve helped each other become more balanced and happy. Yes, we both still have a ways to go, but that’s what life is about.
Today is our last day together, Ben. It has been quite an extraordinary journey for you, and for us. You stole my heart the first time I saw you, over a year ago, and I will never forget you. I will cry for awhile for missing you, but I know that your new forever family will give you an amazing life filled with love, laughter, play, and so much more. They already love you so, so much – and it’s clear that you love them so much, too. Your eyes light up and your whole body shakes with joy and excitement every time you see them. You and they are going to make a wonderful life together.
Thank you for choosing me to share your journey with, my beautiful boy. Thank you for teaching me, for loving me, for trusting me, for being patient with me, and for all the life lessons you’ve worked so hard to help me learn and remember. I love you more than you will ever know…